Re: [www.keralites.net] Opinion- Please help, very urgent and save a life

Dear friend,
               The only and the best solution is to ask  your friend to sit and talk to  her husband.  Has she ever talked this to her husband or is she keeping quiet and being sad.  take an opportunity and go out on a week end and she can discuss, i mean discuss ( not argument) and solve it.

amitha kishore <amithakishore@gmail.com> wrote:
Hi Friends,
 
I am writing this story for one of my friend.  She is a postgraduate and working in Kerala.  She is married just before one year and she face a lot of problems in her life.  Her husband is working in Australia and she is in Kerala. For marriage he took one month leave and married her. After that he did not care or love her and he did not like to spend time with her. He has two sisters and he has more and more attachment to his elder sister.  She is a teacher and her husband is also teacher.  She has two children.  My friend's husband spends more time with her and he is doing all things for her. Before he coming for leave he show more love to my friend and when he reached in his house he is doing like this.  When my friend and her husband went to his elder sister's home, his sister and he went outside of home and talk secretly.  Whenever he saw her they talk only like this, if my friend is there they will stop suddenly. When he came for leave he brought many more items for his sister only. When my friend and her husband went outside (very rarely went outside) he bought things for his sisters and their children. I am not married. I have one brother but he also not married.  His parents also tend him to live for her.  At first days he told to her also he don't want child till his sister's children grown up. His sister's family is settled they have enough money and a loving husband.  His sister's family has also this problem.  Her husband's parents don't like her nature and her brother, (my friend's husband).  His younger sister is in UK.  She and her husband spend their leave in her house only, she spend very few days in her husband's house.  Before his marriage he did not do like this at least once.
 
I think maybe I lost my friend because now she is very sad, upset, and tensed. She told a lot of time she doesn't want to live.  How can I save her? I can't assess this problem and please help me, and pray for my friend.  I hope in this group there is more experienced peoples in life.  Please help me.
 
Thank you
Amitha Kishore

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